HOW TO STRENGTHEN YOUR MARRIAGE:
START EVERY DAY WITH A KISS
Begin your day with love.
ALWAYS WEAR YOUR WEDDING RING
It is a visual reminder of your commitment.
GO ON A DATE WITH YOUR MATE ONCE A WEEK
Dedicate some time just for the two of you even if you just go out for coffee.
BE POLITE
Always practice your best manners at home. Are you more polite to co-workers or strangers than to the one you love?
BE GENTLE AND KIND
Choose to be kind to the one you love and who loves you. Eliminate from your home all harsh and unkind words and actions.
GIVE GIFTS
From time to time give a little gift to say "I love you," like a card, a flower, a favorite candy bar.
SMILE
Wear a happy face and decide to be happy. Remember those glances you used to give each other and how meaningful they were.
TOUCH
Show your love and affection with a pat on the back or a soft caress of the cheek.
TALK ABOUT DREAMS
Forget about busy schedules and share and talk about your ideas and dreams - no matter how crazy they may seem!
GIVE BACK RUBS
Take turns giving each other a soothing rub to help you relax after a busy day.
LAUGH TOGETHER
Share a good laugh everyday. Life is incomplete without laughter.
DO SOMETHING FOR YOUR SPOUSE BEFORE BEING ASKED
Anticipate your mate's needs and jump right in to help. Put his or her needs before your own comfort.
LISTEN
Be a good and active listener. Eliminate any distractions (TV, newspaper, etc.) and give your full attention. Don't worry about fixing a problem, just listen, really listen!.
BE AN ENCOURAGER
Show your love and support by encouraging your spouse to look, feel and do the best they can. Be generous with your praise for success and accomplishments.
CALL YOUR SPOUSE OFTEN
Stop and check in with each other throughout the day just to say "Hi" or "I love you."
HOLD HANDS
Whether you're watching TV or taking a walk together, stay "connected" by holding hands.
LOOK YOUR BEST
The socks and T-shirts or long flannel granny gowns are so comfy, but a little change would be a great idea!
APOLOGIZE
It doesn't matter who's right, and nobody should be keeping score. Saying I'm sorry and forgive me is like saying "I love you."
ASK YOUR SPOUSE "WHAT CAN I DO TO MAKE YOU HAPPIER?"
You may be surprised at the answer and how simple it is to please your mate.
REMINISCE ABOUT YOUR FAVORITE TIMES TOGETHER
Remember and talk about all the special times you shared and think and talk about good times to come.
WATCH A SUNSET TOGETHER
Or watch a sunrise, or the clouds, or the moon or the stars! Find the beauty in life and share and enjoy it together.
END EACH DAY WITH A HUG AND KISS
Just as you decided to begin each day with a hug, decide to end it with love, too.
Congratulations! You found the GardenHouse treat!
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